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How to Reply to “Gochisōsama”

After finishing a meal in Japan, people often say, “Gochisōsama deshita” (ご馳走様でした) to thank the person who prepared or provided the food.

 

A traditional response is “Osomatsusama deshita” (お粗末様でした). Literally, it means, “It was only a poor meal.” Of course, the cook is not saying the food was actually bad. It reflects the Japanese custom of humility—downplaying what you offered rather than praising your own cooking.

 

In the Kansai region, especially around Kyoto and Osaka, you may also hear “Yoroshū oagari” (よろしゅうおあがり).It roughly means, “I’m glad you enjoyed and finished the meal.” It has a warmer and more affectionate feeling, often associated with mothers or grandmothers speaking to their families.

 

Today, many people simply reply, “Dōitashimashite” (どういたしまして) or “Yokatta” (よかった)—“You’re welcome” or “I’m glad.”

 

“Osomatsusama” expresses humility. “Yoroshū oagari” expresses warmth. Both are beautiful examples of how Japanese culture communicates gratitude without using a direct “You’re welcome.”