阿吽の呼吸 (Aun no Kokyū) Understanding Without Words
2026-11-15

阿吽の呼吸 (Aun no Kokyū)
Understanding Without Words
Understanding Without Words
In Japan, we have an expression, Aun no Kokyū, describing a relationship in which two people understand each other without exchanging words.
The expression originates from Buddhism. “A” represents the sound made with an open mouth, while “Un” represents the sound made with a closed mouth, symbolizing the beginning and the end of everything.
You can see this symbolism in the guardian statues at Japanese temples and shrines.
A longtime married couple, experienced business partners, or skilled teammates often develop this kind of connection. They instinctively know what the other person is thinking or what needs to be done.
However, this harmony cannot be created overnight. It develops through shared experiences, mutual understanding, and trust.
In Japanese culture, silence does not necessarily mean a lack of communication.
Sometimes, the strongest connection is the one that requires no words at all.
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Kenichi Uchikura
Founder & CEO
Pacific Software Publishing, Inc. (PSPINC)
Uchikura & Co., LLC.
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ABOUT THIS BLOG
I was born and raised in Japan and have spent most of my adult life in the United States. Through this blog, I share Japanese culture, language, expressions, and wisdom. My goal is not to say one culture is better, but to explore different perspectives and what we can learn from them.
Your comments are always welcome.
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Kenichi Uchikura
Founder & CEO
Pacific Software Publishing, Inc. (PSPINC)
Uchikura & Co., LLC.
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ABOUT THIS BLOG
I was born and raised in Japan and have spent most of my adult life in the United States. Through this blog, I share Japanese culture, language, expressions, and wisdom. My goal is not to say one culture is better, but to explore different perspectives and what we can learn from them.
Your comments are always welcome.
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